Drama vs. Helpfulness, how I will rebuild a friendship

Twitter. It almost means drama. Heck, for those who didn’t catch musician Wil.i.am and Perez Hilton going at it over on Twitter you can get a whif of the kind of things that seem to happen in our real-time entertainment-focused world.

I have drunk too much from that world.

It’s too easy to be nasty. To build alliances, mobs, and use them to hurt people. I know, I’ve been on both the receiving end of that and the giving end of it too.

But I’m going the other way. How can I be helpful?

Yesterday I reminisced about the good old days, when coders ruled the world, not drama. Code isn’t dramatic. It either works, or it doesn’t.

Code doesn’t incite riots. Code doesn’t call people names. Code doesn’t end friendships.

So, I’m leaving the drama world to those who want to use Twitter to riot, to harm, to hurt, or to cause a fight to encourage people to click on their links so they can get the page views and get paid.

Tonight a friend says he’s ending his friendship with me. I don’t care how or why, but I’ll work to be helpful again. I used to be helpful.

I used to help by being excited by seeing the coolest latest startups. I used to help by trying out all the latest technology and knowing more about how to use it than anyone else.

That is still there, but it’s been repressed by the real time world. The drama. The fights.

My friend is noticing the same thing, although he’s articulating it badly. So am I.

It takes two to fight, so now I’m off. How to be helpful?

Well, for one, have you tried Feedly? I’m playing with it and it is now my favorite way to read Google Reader’s feeds and tell the world about who has the best blogs. Yeah, it only works with Firefox, but most of you should be using that anyway. Would love to help out.

Anyway, earlier today I wrote that with every tweet we have a choice: helpful or hurtful. I’m trying to be helpful. Kick me if I’m not.

Excuse me while I try to patch up a friendship.

About Robert Scoble

As Startup Liaison for Rackspace, the Open Cloud Computing Company, I travel the world with Rocky Barbanica looking for what's happening on the bleeding edge of technology and report that here.

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  2. This is an older post Robert, but I just happened to come across it and wanted to commend you on it. Hope you were able to restore that friendship and wanted to thank you for all the valuable information you've been sharing that's been helpful to many people.

  3. I think the problem is many people do not focus on people who like them. For me when something bad comes my way, I invest all of my energy and waste a lot of time on it.

  4. Robert I've been following you for a while, however not as closely as these days. Fact is you are totally right about the drama between parties, and its not just celebs – its all kinds of people looking for attention (good or bad).

    I can say that i'm a happy follower of yours (even if you don't follow me) and within the last couple of weeks i've learned alot from you. Whats important here is the bleeding edge insight you share, and thats only if others care to read it (you'd be surprised how many don't)

    Out of my 16,000 some followers and the recycled links, content and egos i'd say you (and only a handful of others) have helped the most by being original..After all the guys who evangelized social media way before us should step up and take it to another level…

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