Defining “friending”

Danah Boyd writes the definitive paper on “friending.” She wrote this in December, 2006, but is worth bringing up since I talked about this issue this week.

Why link to this? Cause Danah’s my friend. Heheh. You have to read the paper to see just what might be meant by such a statement.

Seriously, one of the best hours I spent at the SXSW conference this year was on the floor listening to Danah. She’s the world authority on this topic. I’m sorry I didn’t link to this earlier.

Author: Robert Scoble

Scoble gives you a front-row seat on the future. Especially on platforms that use the fourth user interface, spatial computing, like virtual reality or mixed reality that will come soon thanks to his own front-row seat as entrepreneur in residence at UploadVR.com and his past experience as futurist at Rackspace. Best place to find Scoble? On his Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/scobletechnology/

Comments

  1. thanks a lot robert

    u made my day- actually evening

    i hope to incorporate what u say into my site

    and can i ask a favor?

    should i register for techcrunch20 conference and launch my idea then and there instead of now and here

    should i have a closed beta test- for u and other vips or have a open system of user testing and all?

    please suggest a way for me

    actually – scoble _i will submit to techcrunch20 with a tech crunch centric idea and model

    thanks a lot

    i know u are like my dad in age _hes 59 and u have hope in me when all have left me

    i feel like singing “i am mr lonely”

    my dad -way back in 2002 told me this_”i have faith in u my son. u are free to do whatever u want as long as u dont ask money”. i was given a comp -24 hours internet=in india in 2002 it was very hard and not cheap and given a pocket money of 100$ per month for not doing anything – just to sit and do whatever i wanted

    i saw a lot of web sites good and bad

    i was also engaged in a internet war with someone who told me he will hack me to death

    i was asked by 4 people “do u love me?”

    in fact heres the strangest thing of it all -in yahoo messenger in a chat room i have been loving someone who would come in a zillion user ids and passwords and i have to find who the person on the other end is i have found this to be the most challenging game i have ever played.u can be chatting with ur enemy or his friend or her friend or her or who.in fact i know i might be one of few people who has seen the net through both a gals eyes and the way the world sees her if she is online as well as a boy as well as a lover – finding the ruler among the saints aND A COMPUTER PROFESSIONAL- in technical terms

    do u know what raja rishi means- it s my lovers male name
    and
    it means kings advisor – raja means_king and rishi is a common north indian word for hindu saint

    thanks a lot scoble

    >(*)

  2. thanks a lot robert

    u made my day- actually evening

    i hope to incorporate what u say into my site

    and can i ask a favor?

    should i register for techcrunch20 conference and launch my idea then and there instead of now and here

    should i have a closed beta test- for u and other vips or have a open system of user testing and all?

    please suggest a way for me

    actually – scoble _i will submit to techcrunch20 with a tech crunch centric idea and model

    thanks a lot

    i know u are like my dad in age _hes 59 and u have hope in me when all have left me

    i feel like singing “i am mr lonely”

    my dad -way back in 2002 told me this_”i have faith in u my son. u are free to do whatever u want as long as u dont ask money”. i was given a comp -24 hours internet=in india in 2002 it was very hard and not cheap and given a pocket money of 100$ per month for not doing anything – just to sit and do whatever i wanted

    i saw a lot of web sites good and bad

    i was also engaged in a internet war with someone who told me he will hack me to death

    i was asked by 4 people “do u love me?”

    in fact heres the strangest thing of it all -in yahoo messenger in a chat room i have been loving someone who would come in a zillion user ids and passwords and i have to find who the person on the other end is i have found this to be the most challenging game i have ever played.u can be chatting with ur enemy or his friend or her friend or her or who.in fact i know i might be one of few people who has seen the net through both a gals eyes and the way the world sees her if she is online as well as a boy as well as a lover – finding the ruler among the saints aND A COMPUTER PROFESSIONAL- in technical terms

    do u know what raja rishi means- it s my lovers male name
    and
    it means kings advisor – raja means_king and rishi is a common north indian word for hindu saint

    thanks a lot scoble

    >(*)

  3. I think Shelly means to say danah doesn’t capitalize her name. I forget why… but it’s somehow pleasing to identify such a cool researcher in such a quirky way.

  4. I think Shelly means to say danah doesn’t capitalize her name. I forget why… but it’s somehow pleasing to identify such a cool researcher in such a quirky way.